So you closed the lid, placed the box back where you found it and turned around and walked away from it.
If you've ever done that... you're not alone. Sometimes we're simply not ready. And that's okay. Many people believe growth happens in a straight line. You discover something. You work through it. You move on. But life rarely unfolds that way. Sometimes we open the same box... close it again... live another year... return to it... see something we couldn't see before... close it again. Then one day... we open the very same box... and something is different. Not because the box changed. Because we did. Life had quietly been doing its work. Every experience. Every conversation. Every disappointment. Every moment of joy. Every question. Without us even realizing it... life was preparing us to see something we couldn't see before. The box was never waiting for us to become stronger. It was simply waiting until we were ready. And there is no timetable for that. Every belief is just another box in the attic. Awareness is how we begin to set it down.
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I couldn't have explained why.
I couldn't have told you what they meant. But something quietly said, "Yes." For nearly three decades, those words stayed with me. During that time, I taught martial arts, self-defense, wrote books, experienced profound joy and heartbreaking loss, questioned nearly everything I thought I knew, and eventually found myself sharing conversations about awareness and non-duality. Yet through all those years, there was one belief I rarely questioned - I often felt that I didn't have the right to teach what I was sharing because I was still learning it myself. Looking back, I can see that belief was just another box in my attic but this week, something shifted... As I was preparing for our next Dojo, and reflecting on the question, "Is Life Happening To You… or Through You?" something unexpected happened. I realized I wasn't simply writing these conversations. It felt as though they were already here. Almost as though the experiences had been breathed into me... waiting to be shared. And in that moment, I finally understood what I had recognized back in 1998. Mr. Parker wasn't talking about teaching after mastery. He was pointing toward something much quieter. Sharing isn't the reward for arriving. Sometimes, sharing is part of the revelation itself. I now see that there is a difference between recognition and revelation. Recognition can happen in an instant. Revelation may unfold over a lifetime. Perhaps that's why some books, conversations, and moments seem to stay with us for years. They are recognized long before we fully understand them. As I look back over the path that brought me here, I no longer see someone trying to become qualified to share. I see life patiently revealing what had already been recognized. And maybe that's what it means for life to happen through us. Not because we have arrived. Not because we have all the answers. But because, every now and then, something quietly reveals itself... and all that's left to do is notice. What Are You Noticing? Have you ever had a knowing that took years to bring to life? I'd love to hear your story in the comments. Life is an energy game. Once you understand how it's played, you can Party Like Purple.
And then, something happened.
It wasn't really a thought. It was a knowing. I knew - throughout my entire body - that someday I wanted to stand in front of people and share a message that might inspire others to see life differently. Then, almost immediately, another voice spoke up... "But what would I ever talk about?" "I could never tell anyone what was really happening in my life." Like so many people, I'd already learned that some things were meant to stay hidden. Some stories were never supposed to be told. Looking back now, I find it fascinating that even then, something in me already knew the direction my life was heading. What I couldn't have known at fourteen was that it would take years before I was ready to live that knowing. I'd have to walk through my own attic first. What Are You Noticing? Have you ever had a knowing that took years to bring to life? I'd love to hear your story in the comments. Life is an energy game. Once you understand how it's played, you can Party Like Purple.
The moment you become aware of the symptoms, the mind quietly offers a familiar invitation.
"I'm sick." Most of us never question it - We simply accept it. Not because we're doing anything wrong, but because we've spent our lives believing ourselves to be the separate person the mind is describing. 💜The body has symptoms 💜The mind gives those symptoms a name 💜Then that name becomes an identity 💜 "I'm sick." Once that invitation is accepted, everything begins to organize itself around that identity. We think like someone who is sick. We worry like someone who is sick. We plan our day like someone who is sick. We wait to become someone who is no longer sick. The same thing happens with financial hardship - "I'm broke." Relationship struggles - "I'm alone." Stress - "I'm overwhelmed." Fear - "I'm anxious." Every one of these is an invitation; not an objective truth about what you are... An invitation. The fascinating part is that all invitations can be accepted or declined. Yet because these invitations arrive as thoughts, we rarely realize we have that choice. Instead, we unconsciously agree with them. This doesn't mean pretending the body isn't experiencing illness. It doesn't mean denying financial challenges or relationship difficulties. It simply means noticing that an experience is not an identity. ➡️The body may be experiencing sickness - Awareness itself is not sick. ➡️Money may be scarce - Awareness itself is not lacking. ➡️A relationship may be ending - Awareness itself has lost nothing. This is where many people try to use willpower. They try to replace negative thoughts with positive ones. They force themselves to think happy thoughts. They try to convince themselves everything is fine. But what if remembering requires no effort at all? What if it isn't about replacing one thought with another? What if it's simply recognizing that you were never the thought in the first place? Infinite awareness doesn't need to become healthy. It doesn't need to become abundant. It doesn't need to become worthy. Those are invitations offered to the separate self. The invitation today isn't to think differently. It's to notice the invitation before accepting it. The next time the mind says, "I'm sick." Pause for a moment. Notice what has actually happened. Has awareness become sick... or has the mind simply offered another box from the attic? Perhaps freedom begins the moment we realize we don't have to unpack every box we're handed. This Week's Attic Invitation - This week, notice every time the mind says "I am..." Before finishing the sentence, pause. Then ask yourself: Is this describing what I truly am... ...or is it simply another invitation waiting for my consent? 💜💜What Are You Noticing?💜💜 Every Attic Journal entry is an invitation to pause, observe, and notice what is here before the story. I'd love to hear what you're noticing. If this reflection stirred something in you, you're invited to share your thoughts in the comments below. Your email address will never be displayed publicly, so your reflections remain between you and me. If you'd like to explore these conversations more deeply, join us for Tuesday's Dojo. And if this work has made a meaningful difference in your life, I'd be deeply grateful if you'd leave a Google review.
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The sensei picked up the teapot and began to pour tea into one of the cups.
When the cup was full, she kept pouring and soon tea was running down the sides of the cup and into the tray. The student pointed to the cup and said, “Stop, can’t you see the cup is full and no more will go in?” The sensei smiled and said, “Like this cup, your mind is full of what you believe and don’t believe. Before you can learn more, you must empty your cup to make room. |