When you think about your mother, how do you feel? Do you feel loved, cherished, appreciated and supported or are there negative feelings between you and your mother like anger, resentment, guilt, frustration and low self-worth?
Every person in your life is someone you've made a karmic contract with before you were born; this includes your mother! If this is the first time you've heard this, it may seem hard to believe. If it sounds too hard to believe, you may want to stop reading right here.
If you're still reading, congratulations for being open minded to learn how you can be more empowered around your mother.
Every belief about who you are and what you're capable of happened between the ages of birth to eight years of age. Your childhood relationship with your mother helped form your beliefs, opinions and understanding of how the world works and what is possible.
If you had a loving, supportive mother, you may have created a positive sense of who you are and what you're capable of. If your mother was unloving, unforgiving, judgmental, harsh, or physically cruel, you may have created negative beliefs about yourself.
If you can relate to this, and you've been blaming your mother for negative childhood experiences and how they're affecting your adult choices, are you ready to end your karmic contract with your mother?
Are you ready to finally be free of the guilt, judgment, anger, animosity, blame, and feeling disempowered around your mother?
98% of the thoughts you think today are the same thoughts you had yesterday and the day before that. Are your thoughts about your mother positive or negative? All negative thoughts create a vibration that attracts more negativity. "What you think, you become. What you feel, you attract. What you imagine, you create." ~ Buddha
Disempowering thoughts often show up as:
Difficulty voicing your opinion
Inability to have a calm conversation when someone disagrees with you
Feeling like a victim
Trying to be a better mother to your children than your mother was to you
Fear and distrust (always expecting the worst case scenario)
Lack (financial, emotional, physical, spiritual)
Easily angered by others
Childhood sexual abuse that's still triggering your adult self
Challenging relationships with one or both parents
Feeling betrayed or distrustful because at some point you learned most of what your mother taught you was based on lies, half-truths and innuendos
The urge to tell others how horrible your mother is when they start talking about how wonderful their mother is
If you've been experiencing situations of disempowerment, let's work together to discover the belief that's causing you to feel disempowered.
The likelihood of thinking the same thoughts over and over are extremely high. 98% of the thoughts you're thinking today are the same thoughts you had yesterday, and the day before that and the weeks, months (and sometimes years) before that. If you want to be more empowered, you will also need to learn how to master your thoughts, to be "thought aware" to break your patterns of disempowering beliefs.
The next step is to pay attention to how your thoughts make you FEEL. When you feel strong emotions about a particular thought or belief, you are giving it energy. This energy creates a vibration and the vibration is how you are creating your reality. This is the Law of Attraction in action!
If this is difficult for you to accept, you are likely blaming another person, place or experience for what's happening in your life. It's ok, it's not your fault - this is how most people were taught about the way life works. You've been taught that your struggles are someone else's fault. If someone would make different choices, your life would be better. But this is the exact belief that's disempowering you.
If you're ready to learn how to let go of your dis-empowering beliefs to live a more empowered life, apply for this group class to master your beliefs and Be Empowered!
Q: My mother and I are no longer speaking, can I still benefit from a session about this? A: Yes, you will still benefit from this class because whatever the reason you're no longer speaking, if you were unable to end the karmic contract between the two of you, you will continue to be triggered by past experiences.
Q: My mother is deceased; how can this class help me? A: You don't have to be able to have a conversation with your mother to benefit from this class. If you are still triggered by things left "unsaid" between the two of you, you'll learn why your unspoken words are still triggering you and how to release the feelings and emotions around them.
Q: Will talking about this be disrespectful to my mother? A: No, this subject will teach you how you can be seen, heard, loved and respected with or without your mother's approval.
Q: I was raised to respect my parents but I have a difficult time respecting my mother's choices. Can this subject help me get clear on this? A: Yes, your session will help you get clear on this because you will learn how the choices your mother made do not have to affect you and your choices.
Q: How can I be sure this information will help me? A: As with any information, it's only as good as the attention, energy and focus you give it and how you apply it to your life. I can assure you that everything I teach is based on my own experiences and what has worked for me has also worked for many other women as I've been teaching these steps since 2015.