Q: Who is your ideal student/client?
A: My ideal student/client is someone who has done the work, yet senses there is something more. They've spent years healing, growing, and searching for answers, but they're beginning to realize that true freedom isn't found in becoming someone new - it's found in remembering what they are. They're curious, open, and willing to question long-held beliefs. Rather than looking for someone to tell them what to do, they're seeking a guide who will explore awareness alongside them.
Q: What does it mean to Master Your Beliefs?
A: Mastering your beliefs is what remains when we stop mistaking every belief for who we are?
Q: Where can I see you in action?
A: Scroll down to the footer of my website and visit my YouTube channel
Q: Do you still teach martial arts?
A: I don't teach physical martial arts anymore - instead of punches, I teach presence. Instead of blocks I teach awareness, Instead of forms I teach recognition. My life changed when I realized the dojo was never about fighting - it was about becoming a certain way of being!
Q: Do you accept credit cards?
A: Yes - most major credit cards are accepted as well as Zelle
Q: What is Awareness?
A: Awareness is that which knows your experience without being the experience itself. Thoughts come and go. Emotions come and go. Sensations come and go. Even the story of "me" changes over time. Yet something has always been present, quietly aware of every thought, every emotion, every moment. That is awareness. It isn't something you create or achieve. It isn't a higher state of consciousness. It is what has always been here.
Q: What is the difference between a coach and a sensei?
A: A coach is often expected to get someone from Point A to Point B. A sensei creates a space where practice reveals something the student couldn't see before.Those are fundamentally different relationships.
Q: How can I get to know you better and get a feel for how you work?
A: I don't expect you to decide after reading a website. Relationships are built through experience, not information. Watch a few videos. Read a few articles. Sit with the questions we explore. Join a Dojo discussion if it feels right. If you find yourself thinking, "This feels familiar," or "I've been looking for someone who speaks about awareness this way," then you've already begun to get to know me. My hope isn't that you'll agree with everything I share. My hope is that something awakens a deeper knowing within you. That's how I believe real learning happens.
Q: Do you work with couples?
A: Yes. Whatever stage your relationship is in (married, divorced, thinking about getting married, thinking about getting divorced, dating), I'm here to support you. Note: both people must be in complete agreement about working with me if you want to work as a couple
Q: Can I hire you to work with someone other than myself?
A: Yes, however, I'll want to have a conversation with that person first and no part of our initial conversation or any conversations will be shared. All conversations are private (if we choose to work together) client confidentiality is a must.
Q: Do you work nights and weekends?
A: Yes, I meet with clients internationally so different schedules, time zones and the availabilities are an option.
Q: Do you accept insurance?
A: No
Q: Do you offer refunds
A: No. If your purchase feels right to you, then it is. There are no refunds or reimbursements for any reason, so please take your time at the checkout and consider your purchase carefully.
Q: Can you guarantee specific results?
A: I truly believe in the work I do and how it can support anyone. Ultimately, the only thing we have control over are the thoughts we think and the choices we make. Testimonials from my clients are based on their own levels of commitment. Therefore there is never a guarantee or promise of specific results; results will vary depending on each person and his or her commitment to living as the infinite being they are.
Q: How can I experience Effortless Being?
A: Watch for words such as I, me and mine - when you use these words you are accepting invitations to experience the dualistic realm.
Q: Do I need special equipment to meet with you?
A: No. I use the Zoom platform for all sessions. There is nothing for you to download.
Q: Can I work with you in person?
A: Only during workshops and retreats - all 1:1 sessions are held via zoom
Q: Why do you do this work?
A: I think the best way to answer that question would be to suggest you visit my "About Me" page and listen to the audio excerpt from my book "Healing The Child Within" - that will give you an idea of what set me on this path.
Q: I thought you only work with women but I notice you also work with men. What reasons do men have for working with you?
A: For many years, my work focused primarily on women because much of my personal story resonated with their experiences. As my own understanding of awareness and self-realization deepened, I realized that the questions I explore aren't unique to women—they're human questions. Many men have spent a lifetime believing they need to be strong by hiding uncertainty, vulnerability, or emotion. Over time, some begin to recognize that those beliefs no longer serve them, whether in their relationships, careers, or their relationship with themselves.Our work isn't about becoming more masculine or more feminine. It's about becoming more aware. Together, we explore the beliefs that have shaped your life and discover what remains when those beliefs are questioned. From that awareness comes greater clarity, authenticity, and freedom—qualities that naturally enrich every area of life. While my journey began by serving women, I now welcome anyone who feels called to explore awareness, regardless of gender.
Q: What does it mean to "Party Like Purple"
A: “Party Like Purple” came from her 4-year-old grandson who is now 22 years old! When my grandson was 4 years old, we were preparing to have family night with pizza and a movie. As Nancy was in the kitchen making pizza dough, her 4-year-old grandson walked into the kitchen and said, “Grammy, tonight we're going to Party Like Purple” and Nancy realized he was feeling loved, secure and part of something much bigger than himself and the only way he could think to describe it was “Party Like Purple” – the phrase has been with Nancy all these years and she uses it in her business and personal life to encourage people globally to “Love Their Life while they Party Like Purple!”
A: My ideal student/client is someone who has done the work, yet senses there is something more. They've spent years healing, growing, and searching for answers, but they're beginning to realize that true freedom isn't found in becoming someone new - it's found in remembering what they are. They're curious, open, and willing to question long-held beliefs. Rather than looking for someone to tell them what to do, they're seeking a guide who will explore awareness alongside them.
Q: What does it mean to Master Your Beliefs?
A: Mastering your beliefs is what remains when we stop mistaking every belief for who we are?
Q: Where can I see you in action?
A: Scroll down to the footer of my website and visit my YouTube channel
Q: Do you still teach martial arts?
A: I don't teach physical martial arts anymore - instead of punches, I teach presence. Instead of blocks I teach awareness, Instead of forms I teach recognition. My life changed when I realized the dojo was never about fighting - it was about becoming a certain way of being!
Q: Do you accept credit cards?
A: Yes - most major credit cards are accepted as well as Zelle
Q: What is Awareness?
A: Awareness is that which knows your experience without being the experience itself. Thoughts come and go. Emotions come and go. Sensations come and go. Even the story of "me" changes over time. Yet something has always been present, quietly aware of every thought, every emotion, every moment. That is awareness. It isn't something you create or achieve. It isn't a higher state of consciousness. It is what has always been here.
Q: What is the difference between a coach and a sensei?
A: A coach is often expected to get someone from Point A to Point B. A sensei creates a space where practice reveals something the student couldn't see before.Those are fundamentally different relationships.
Q: How can I get to know you better and get a feel for how you work?
A: I don't expect you to decide after reading a website. Relationships are built through experience, not information. Watch a few videos. Read a few articles. Sit with the questions we explore. Join a Dojo discussion if it feels right. If you find yourself thinking, "This feels familiar," or "I've been looking for someone who speaks about awareness this way," then you've already begun to get to know me. My hope isn't that you'll agree with everything I share. My hope is that something awakens a deeper knowing within you. That's how I believe real learning happens.
Q: Do you work with couples?
A: Yes. Whatever stage your relationship is in (married, divorced, thinking about getting married, thinking about getting divorced, dating), I'm here to support you. Note: both people must be in complete agreement about working with me if you want to work as a couple
Q: Can I hire you to work with someone other than myself?
A: Yes, however, I'll want to have a conversation with that person first and no part of our initial conversation or any conversations will be shared. All conversations are private (if we choose to work together) client confidentiality is a must.
Q: Do you work nights and weekends?
A: Yes, I meet with clients internationally so different schedules, time zones and the availabilities are an option.
Q: Do you accept insurance?
A: No
Q: Do you offer refunds
A: No. If your purchase feels right to you, then it is. There are no refunds or reimbursements for any reason, so please take your time at the checkout and consider your purchase carefully.
Q: Can you guarantee specific results?
A: I truly believe in the work I do and how it can support anyone. Ultimately, the only thing we have control over are the thoughts we think and the choices we make. Testimonials from my clients are based on their own levels of commitment. Therefore there is never a guarantee or promise of specific results; results will vary depending on each person and his or her commitment to living as the infinite being they are.
Q: How can I experience Effortless Being?
A: Watch for words such as I, me and mine - when you use these words you are accepting invitations to experience the dualistic realm.
Q: Do I need special equipment to meet with you?
A: No. I use the Zoom platform for all sessions. There is nothing for you to download.
Q: Can I work with you in person?
A: Only during workshops and retreats - all 1:1 sessions are held via zoom
Q: Why do you do this work?
A: I think the best way to answer that question would be to suggest you visit my "About Me" page and listen to the audio excerpt from my book "Healing The Child Within" - that will give you an idea of what set me on this path.
Q: I thought you only work with women but I notice you also work with men. What reasons do men have for working with you?
A: For many years, my work focused primarily on women because much of my personal story resonated with their experiences. As my own understanding of awareness and self-realization deepened, I realized that the questions I explore aren't unique to women—they're human questions. Many men have spent a lifetime believing they need to be strong by hiding uncertainty, vulnerability, or emotion. Over time, some begin to recognize that those beliefs no longer serve them, whether in their relationships, careers, or their relationship with themselves.Our work isn't about becoming more masculine or more feminine. It's about becoming more aware. Together, we explore the beliefs that have shaped your life and discover what remains when those beliefs are questioned. From that awareness comes greater clarity, authenticity, and freedom—qualities that naturally enrich every area of life. While my journey began by serving women, I now welcome anyone who feels called to explore awareness, regardless of gender.
Q: What does it mean to "Party Like Purple"
A: “Party Like Purple” came from her 4-year-old grandson who is now 22 years old! When my grandson was 4 years old, we were preparing to have family night with pizza and a movie. As Nancy was in the kitchen making pizza dough, her 4-year-old grandson walked into the kitchen and said, “Grammy, tonight we're going to Party Like Purple” and Nancy realized he was feeling loved, secure and part of something much bigger than himself and the only way he could think to describe it was “Party Like Purple” – the phrase has been with Nancy all these years and she uses it in her business and personal life to encourage people globally to “Love Their Life while they Party Like Purple!”
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Q: Why the Bushido on one of your book covers?
A: These women fought in battle alongside samurai men. They were members of the bushi (samurai) class in feudal Japan and were trained in the use of weapons to protect their household, family, and honor in times of war. The Bushido Warrior in my logo was drawn by local Long Beach, CA artist LaJon Miller. From the moment I first laid eyes on this drawing, she stirred something inside of me. Look at her, she has all the strength and confidence of a warrior and yet she exudes the curves and softness of a woman. Every time I look at her I hear her say, "I believe in my inner strength but never mistake my softness for weakness." Her look sums up my reason for studying Martial Arts and I believe this is something everyone wants on some level. "It's important to know when to pick up your sword, and when to lay it down." ~ Sensei Nancy Mueller |
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Life is an energy game.
Every insight shared becomes an energetic exchange. If something here helps you remember what you are, then we've both been enriched.
The sensei picked up the teapot and began to pour tea into one of the cups. Soon the cup was full, but the sensei kept pouring and tea was running down the sides of the cup and into the tray. She finally shouted, “Stop, can’t you see the cup is full and no more will fit into the cup?”
The sensei smiled and said, “Like this cup, your mind is full of what you believe and don’t believe. Before you can learn more, you must empty your cup to make room for more.
The sensei smiled and said, “Like this cup, your mind is full of what you believe and don’t believe. Before you can learn more, you must empty your cup to make room for more.